The Ultimate Meaning of True Womanhood

Was blessed by this today :) The main point I treasure:

I commend to you this truth: The ultimate purpose of God in history is the display of the glory of his Son in dying for his bride. God has created man as male and female because there are aspects of Christ’s glory which would not be known if they were not reflected in the complementary differences of manhood and womanhood. Therefore, true womanhood is a distinctive calling of God to display the glory of his Son in ways that would not be displayed if there were no womanhood. Married womanhood has its unique potential for magnifying Christ that single womanhood does not have. Single womanhood has its unique potential for magnifying Christ which married womanhood does not have. So whether you marry or remain single, do not settle for a wimpy theology. It is beneath you. God is too great. Christ is too glorious. True womanhood is too strategic. Don’t waste it. Your womanhood—your true womanhood—was made for the glory of Jesus Christ.

Grace and Mercy

I'm learning so much about God's grace in my life and the need I have to give it to others, particularly to Erick. His grace and mercy is abundant and mine is but a trickle! The more I abide in the deep waters of my Savior, the more I know I will be able to love and cherish Erick.

Old lessons and new ones

I was really blessed by this article today. Some old lessons that need revisiting and some new lessons that need applying :) So thankful that the difficulties and struggles we have had in our relationship are not unique to us! More on this later :)

Here is the article: Husbands: Some Assembly Required

When doubts assail, the Lord prevails

The Lord is a stronghold for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble. And those who know your name put their trust in you, for you, O Lord, have not forsaken those who seek you. Psalm 9:9-10

God-centered


Amanda + Jacob | Feature from Paperback Films on Vimeo.

So blessed by Amanda and Jacob's God-centered wedding and marriage. Their vows move me so much. I am sober-minded and joyful in a quiet and still way. The magnitude and power of such a beautiful event makes me hold my breath. Lord, would you have this for Erick and I? Lord, cultivate in me a heart that longs to see you glorified most of all. It is so beautiful to have you at the center.

A beautiful day

The Lord is so good to us! On this day I was blessed at the realization that God is bringing two families slowly together in the most beautiful way. I saw it in the way our grandmothers held hands and shared stories of God's work in their lives, exuding joy that can only come from Jesus. It is by His grace that Erick and I stand with two Proverbs 31 women we greatly admire and that we call grandmother.

A Year's Journey


Erick wrote this to me just a week after my graduation day and the day we officially became a couple:
"It's nice being on this side of the year with you, Amy." 
It's amazing to me to think that it has been one year since this whole journey began. One whole year! And yet, I also know that with our God, this has been something that was already carefully orchestrated before time even began. Each new day that I wake up on this side of the waiting, when I think about where we were, what thoughts, emotions, prayers, cries we had to our Father just a year ago, I am reminded of His faithfulness. There was never a thought or cry unmet, never a prayer left unanswered. Always promise after promise. He has been so faithful to us and He promises to continue to be.

Something Erick told me about God's faithfulness- acknowledging His faithfulness in our lives is not only an opportunity for us to be thankful, but also an opportunity for us to be able to count on His faithfulness again in our lives. His faithfulness points us toward future faithfulness, future grace.

There is joy in expectancy.

Something that God was really teaching me and Erick during the past year is that there is joy in expectancy, there is joy in the waiting. It was so easy for us to believe that joy would come only at the end of the year and focus on the momentary affliction that seemed to rob us of that joy. Erick wrote me a letter during a more difficult time toward the end of the year, sharing with me what God was showing him when he found it hard to cultivate joy in the midst of hardship:
"I was praying more on this question today and God reminded me of some key truth (John 14:26) that I wanted to share with you, that we may rejoice in this time that can be trialsome. A way to joy within the trial itself is to fix our eyes on Jesus. He is beautiful and He is sovereign and He has conquered sin and death. Therefore, when we look at Him, we can endure whatever cross He would have us bear because we know that the work He is doing in us, in every circumstance including difficult ones, is bearing glorious fruit that far outweighs this momentary, light affliction (Hebrews 12:2)."
During this time God was reminding us and encouraging us with Philippians 4:4 and Hebrews 12, showing us that the waiting period is one that can be filled with joy when our eyes are fixed on Jesus. And this is our joy as Christians as well, while we walk this journey of life. What hope we have and what joy we can claim when our eyes are on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith! His Kingdom is both here and not yet! My friend, MaryAnn, wrote this in her blog around the same time last year:
"I think this is what (should) make the gospel so enticing.  In the gospel, we are promised an inheritance beyond comparison and guaranteed a future full of good and wonderful things.  We have Hope like no other...With Christ, I really can keep on living with a constant, continual, everyday hopeful, expectant anticipation of a miracle."
Thank you, God, for the strength, the grace and the promises You gave us to lead us through a whole year as single individuals seeking after Your will and glory. I really love the way Erick put it: even though we are no longer waiting to date, we are now seeking God together to wait on greater things to come. A new kind of wait :) Thank you, Father, for the opportunity  to wait together in a new segment of this journey. May this relationship be used for Your glory and may it continue to point us, as it has so far, to understanding more and more of Your intimate love for us.  Help us to wait with joy, for us and for Your Kingdom come.

His faithfulness today points us to future faithfulness, future grace!